2. After having received the green light by his allergist, Charles had his first taste of cheese on Saturday (which he loved, by the way).
3. After nearly a week of red cheeks, awful sleep, bucketfuls of drool, constant nursing and chewing on everything she could get her mouth on, Amélie cut her first tooth on Sunday (closely followed by a second one the very next day).
4. Little Dude spent his first week at daycare sans diaper. And it went well!
5. I went out with Charles to the rink (which is literally right across the street from our house) for his first skating experience on Saturday. He had a blast.
6. For the first time in years, the price of gas dropped to under a buck per liter around here. Yay!
7. Amélie took the train for the first time on Thursday. She slept the whole way through, though, so she didn’t even notice :P.
8. After almost completing my first crochet project (a scarf which I completely unwound because the perfectionist in me wasn’t happy with the result), I started my first project with a pattern. It took a little getting used to, but I’m getting better at pattern-reading.
9. Since Numb3rs isn’t available on Netflix Canada anymore :( , my partner and I started to watch the first season of House of Cards. It’s fascinating to see all of the manipulation that can happen behind the scenes of political life.
10. I’m looking forward to my first good night of sleep in a week and am crossing my fingers for it to happen tonight. Wish me luck!
Have you had any “firsts” recently?
Last Thursday, we went for Little Dude’s follow-up appointment with his pediatric allergist. It was freezing cold and there was oddles of traffic so I’m super happy we took the train and subway to go to the hospital.
We first sat down with the doctor who asked how things were going allergy-wise. She was thrilled when I told her that we had successfully introduced milk in baking and cooking. I also talked about the insane reaction that Little Dude had after taking Amoxil a couple of months ago. Then, after some more waiting in the toy-filled waiting room, we went back in to see the nurse who would conduct the scratch test. This time, she skipped the synthesized dairy altogether and used a drop of fresh milk right off the bat. I was really eager to see how it would go, because last time, the test spot started reacting before we were even out of the nurse’s office.
Well, it turns out that we would be receiving good news.
1. Despite the fact that Charles did react again to the fresh milk, his reaction was so small that the allergist gave us the green light to try hard cheeses with Charles. She went on to say that if the hard cheeses were ok, that we could then try softer ones and even yogurt!
2. Because Charles’ reaction was smaller than the control spot, the allergist is pretty confident that Little Dude’s dairy allergy will be history by the time he’s 3. We will have a follow-up appointment in 6 months to keep monitoring his progress.
3. It turns out that the little guy isn’t allergic to penicillin. Though he had an immune reaction, it wasn’t an allergic reaction. It was a serum-sickness-like reaction to either a virus or the Amoxil. Since there’s no way to know which it was, I was told to avoid the Amoxil, but told that other forms of penicillin should be fine.
Perhaps, by his 3rd birthday, Charles will be able to have some buttercream icing or whipped cream on his cake!
2. Potty training is going well. I’ve got a post in my drafts that I’ve been working on, but can’t seem to find the time to finish. Hopefully I’ll be able to update you all by Friday.
3. I’ve taken up crochet over Christmas holidays after receiving a set of crochet hooks and a couple of balls of yarn. (I’ve been meaning to learn for a while now). I’m currently working on a scarf now that I’ve got a couple of stitches down. It’s not perfect, but I’m quite happy with it considering I only learned how to crochet about a week ago.
4. Now that she has officially mastered thumb-sucking, Amélie has moved on to trying to roll from back to front. She is so close! Of course, she has decided to practice perfecting this new skill each and every time she is on her back. And no time slot is off limits; yesterday, she had an intense session from 10pm to 2am. It was fun…
5. I’ve been making my bread for about a month now and am still loving it. My sister got me a really wonderful breadmaking book for Christmas (the kneading technique in the book has seriously saved my wrists) and I am slowly working through it and trying the different kinds of bread and pastries that are presented.
6. This Thursday, Charles has a follow-up appointment with his allergist. I’ll be mentioning his reaction to the amoxcil he took a little while back. I’ll be commuting via train and subway with both kiddos. It should prove to be an interesting trip.
7. On Friday it will be Amélie’s turn for a medical appointment as she has her 4 month check-up.
8. A blogger I was following last year had written about her plan to do no-spend January last year. My partner have decided to take the challenge for January 2015. Besides paying the bills that need to be paid and tanking up when we need gas, we have budgeted 700$ for eating for the month (which probably means that we won’t be eating out). Other than that, we’re planning on not spending a penny more. I’m eager to see how it goes (ie: if 700$ is a reasonable amount and if we’ll be able to refrain from spending on other stuff).
9. I have started working on getting Amélie to fall asleep independently. Since she’s able to suck her thumb, I’m counting on that to be her method of falling asleep. I’m hoping that I won’t have to get in to full-blown sleep training mode, but if I do, I’ll be using PUPD like I did with Charles a year and a half ago.
10. Charles is still very much in love with his little sister and she loves him just as much. One of the pictures that was taken of them at a photo studio captures the sentiment very nicely, don’t you think?
So, what happened, you ask? Well, I’m not exactly sure. I mean, in the first four days, he did wonderfully. We went from a toddler who didn’t realize that he was peeing to a toddler who was not only able to hold it in long enough to make it to his potty on his own, but managed to stay dry during his nap.
On day 5 (Christmas day) we decided to push the envelope further and keep him out of his diaper as we drove to my parents’ house (a 10 minute drive) for a morning family time. At my parents’, we brought his potty and the progress continued. Not only did he stay dry in the car, he even managed to keep his boxers and pants dry all morning and used the potty twice while at his maternal grandparents’ house.
After lunch, we drove to my in-laws’ house for the afternoon and evening. Then, the plan was to leave the kids with them for the night (their Christmas present to us and them :D). I was feeling super comfortable with this because Charles had been doing so well with the potty. The afternoon went well for Charles, but he had his first accident of the day during supper. Of course, take a new potty (my MIL buys everything for her house so that we don’t have to pack full bags for the kids when we go to her house) and a long refill-filled supper and it was an accident waiting to happen. I didn’t think much of it though as Charles was only on day 5 of potty training. I figure that 5 days into potty training, it’s normal for accidents to still happen. Of course, a second accident happened a short while later, but Charles managed to successfully use the potty before we left for the night.
And then, he came back home on the 26th during the afternoon…
Besides coming back with a diaper, he was super clingy. No wait, let me rephrase that, he was SUPER clingy all evening. It was so out of character that my partner and I decided that Charles would go to bed at 6:30 instead of 7:00. We assumed that he was tired because he had gone to bed too late the previous evening (and, I mean, who can blame the grandparents for keeping him up past his bedtime?).
Fast forward to this morning. Charles did not want me to take off his diaper when he woke up. He also wanted to be stuck to me all the time. Seriously, if he could have physically gotten under my skin to stay with me at all times, he would have. Then, he had accident on top of accident on top of accident. Even on day 1 of potty training he didn’t pee as much. Even on day 1 of potty training, he managed to land a few pees in the potty. Right now, it’s as though we’re on day -5. It’s as though he forgot every single thing he knew about potty training and then some.
And it’s so very frustrating, because each time he pees on the floor by accident, he starts crying and gets angry. And each time, once he’s on the potty, his father or I give him a hug, tell him we love him and that accidents are ok and remind him that pee goes in the potty while we wipe the urine off the ground.
So I know that something must have happened while he was with his grandparents. I just don’t know what. I know that when I called yesterday morning, my MIL assured me that everything was ok. But, when my partner came back from doing the groceries this morning, he told me that he had gotten into a row with his dad who told him that Little Dude wasn’t ready for potty training because he kept peeing everywhere at their house in the morning and he would cry each time they put him on the potty. I know their not the kind of people to get angry at Charles for accidents. I know that they didn’t yell at him. But something happened and it probably seemed insignificant to them. Charles seems to have connected two dots that weren’t meant to be connected.
Of course, the “something” can simply be the fact that he slept at his grandparents’ instead of sleeping at home.
Towards the end of the morning today, Little Dude was better. After going through every single pair of boxers (10) he owns, plus two pairs of pants, he finally managed to make it to the potty twice before his nap.
Here’s to hoping things get better.
Did you ever experience regression during potty training? How did you deal with it?
We are now at the tail end of the 4th day since starting potty training with Charles and I have to say that I am absolutely amazed by his progress.
He is now able to control his bladder for longer periods of time. On day 2, he went 10 times (7 on the potty & 3 accidents). On day 3, he went 6 times (3 on the potty & 3 accidents). On day 4, he went 4 times (3 on the potty and 1 accident).
It also seems that pooping on the potty isn’t a problem as he went on day 2 and every day since.
Furthermore, he surprised me today (day 4) by having his very first dry nap (we still use diapers for naps and nighttime sleep). Plus, as an added bonus, he was able to stay in the same pair of pants from the time he awoke from his nap to the time he was ready for bed. In the past days, he always ended up wetting his boxers because, when he had them on, he would only realize he needed to pee when he had already started.
Though Charles has come a long way in the past four days, he still has a few quirks to work out in the realm of bowel movements. He still needs to work on understanding when he’s about to have a bowel movement (and when he’s actually done).
Tomorrow, we’re also taking potty training to the next level. We’re going to be out of the house for Christmas (going to my parents’ house in the morning and my in-laws’ in the afternoon). This will be his first time out of the house without a diaper. This means that we’re going to be testing if he can handle a 15 minute car ride and if he’ll be able to use the potty in a new setting. I’m eager to see how things go (and plan on packing quite a bit of spare pants and boxers).
Fingers crossed for things to go well.
Merry Christmas all!
As soon as Charles got home from swimming lessons, I got really excited and showed him his potty. We started by getting it out of the box and getting it set up with the 3 AA batteries that are required for the headache-inducing songs to play (but my toddler loves them so, meh, small price to pay). The potty got him really excited. Then, I managed to bribe him into taking his pants and diaper off and in exchange he got to pick a pair of really cool boxers to wear. After repeating that now, he was going to pee in the potty like a big boy, he was allowed to go on with his business.
After about 10 minutes, I checked him. His boxers were wet. “Oh look, Charles, your boxers are wet, you peed in them”, I said in a cheery voice. “Don’t worry, let’s get them off. Remember, pee goes in the potty. How ’bout you go sit on your potty and mommy will give you a marshmallow”.
I did not put another fresh pair of boxers on after that. (Yep, the little guy went around the house with naught but a shirt on for the rest of the day)
After that, we had a few accidents. He wasn’t used to monitoring his need to pee or announce it as he’s never had to. We always got him on his potty as soon as we could and cleaned up, never making a big deal out of accidents.
Eventually, though, a positive accident happened. He was sitting on his potty watching some Youtube videos (hey, why sit on the sofa when you can sit on a singing potty instead, right?) and I heard the darned thing congratulate him. He just kept sitting there as though nothing had happened.
Well I got excited. I paused his video, got him off the potty and showed him what was inside. Then, we started a routing of emptying in the toilet, wiping, flushing, washing hands and putting a sticker on his chart (no marshmallows needed!). The second pee we caught happened the same way, by accident.
After that, he started announcing that he was peeing while in the act. Now that was progress! We were even able to get him to finish peeing in the potty once he had started on the floor. Eventually, he started asking either his father or I to put our computer in front of the potty. He would then sit down and a minute or two after, we would hear his potty congratulate him. By then though, he didn’t need his potty to tell him that he had gone; he would stand up and announce his success.
I was thrilled to see how far he’d gone in one day, but that would not be the end of the progress. By the end of the day, Charles was announcing that he had to go pee before going.
Then, before supper, he talked about needing to go #2. I got him on the washroom toilet and we sat there together chatting. At one point, he asked for a diaper. But I repeated that diapers were just for bedtime. He eventually got off the toilet, had supper and then took his bath without going. After that, I got him in a diaper and we did his bedtime routine. I’m pretty sure I’m going to find him in a dirty diaper tomorrow morning (which is why I put on a nice coat of cream on his bum first), but I’m ok with that. We’ll take this potty training thing one step at a time.
Tally of the day:
7 pees caught. I’m thinking that’s pretty good.
Was it longer for your kids to learn to use the potty for bowel movements? Do you have any winning strategies (besides patience) to help a toddler along?
“Signs of Potty Training Readiness”
Type in those five words in Google, and you’re sure to get about 105,000 hits in about as long as it takes you to hit the “enter” button on your keyboard.
The amount of information out there is actually overwhelming. There are articles, checklists, quizzes – all there to help you determine whether your toddler is ready to ditch the diapers. Luckily for you, I did all the legwork. After compiling the information contained in the top ten sites, I have a list of 7 potty training readiness signs. Each of these 7 signs have come up on at least eight of the ten sites I visited.
1. His bowel movements are well-formed and pretty regular.
2. She can stay dry for 2h periods (and may even be dry upon waking from her nap).
3. He is able to get undressed/dressed (or at least pull down/up his pants) with little to no help.
Partially – He can get his pants off if I pull them down past his bulky cloth diaper, the same goes with pulling back up.
4. She dislikes being in a wet or dirty diaper.
Nope – He could stay in his soiled diaper all day and he wouldn’t give a crap (pun intended).
5. He is interested in the washroom habits of family members and likes to come and watch.
Check – besides the fact that bathroom attendance is one of his favourite activities, he also likes to give a play-by-play of what’s going on.
6. She clearly shows she is having a bowel movement. This can be a verbal indication (“I’m going poopoo!”) or a non-verbal (hiding, squatting) one.
7. He can follow simple instructions.
Check – but he sometimes chooses not to.
So where does that leave us? He absolutely nails three of the signs. He completely flunks two. And the last two allow for an ambiguous interpretation.
Luckily for you, I’ve got a checklist of another 5 signs of readiness!
1. You’re tired of playing catch-the-streaking-toddler, avoid-the-pissed-off-toddler’s-kicks and try-not-to-become-deaf-from-your-toddler’s-Banshee-like-screams during every single diaper change.
2. You don’t have any carpet in your house & know how to use a Swiffer.
3. You’ve read numerous blog posts/articles on different potty training methods.
4. You’re not above the use of bribery and you have the mini-marshmallows to prove it.
5. You (and your significant other) have got at least a full week coming up to devote to potty training because of Christmas hollidays.
We’re starting on December 20th, by the way. Feel free to check out the “Potty Training Chronicles” page that should be coming up in the next few days to laugh with me (or at me), cry with me and send your own stories.
My brain’s not really working today and I felt like posting, so I figured I’d go ahead and post a few random thoughts/photos/videos instead of trying to write a coherent text.
1. After spending weeks sucking on her hand, Amélie has found her thumb. Of course, sometimes it takes her 15 minutes to find it, but when she does, she’s happy.
2. I’m finding it hard replying to comments lately (it might have something to do with the fact that my daughter seems to have declared naps longer than 30 minutes to be a complete waste of her time). If I haven’t replied yet, I’ll get to it eventually.
3. Either iPhoto’s facial recognition is really bad or my kiddos really look alike because each time I upload photos of my daughter, this is what happens:
4. Whoever said that a breastfed baby doesn’t get sick obviously didn’t have a daycare-going-germ-covered-I-love-my-little-sister-so-much-I-want-to-touch-her-all-the-time-especially-in-the-face toddler.
5. Yep, I’m the proud mother of a mucus-filled 3 month old and 2 year old (I’ll spare you the pictures).
6. While I was at my dentist’s office yesterday, getting a pyogenic granuloma removed from my gums (thanks for that, Amélie, by the way…) she shared with me some of the methods that she used to try to get her boys (who, like Charles, are also allergic to penicillin) to take some Biaxin. They included bribery with Kit Kat Bars and mixing it with a nice big squirt of pure Nestlea Quick syrup. I love my dentist!
7. Charles received a very cool remote-controlled car from his “third grandma” (who is actually the receptionist who works at my partner’s job) for his birthday. (Since I often go meet my partner at the end of his work day, she has pretty much seen Charles grow up). It was so funny to see him play with his new toy!
And there you go, that’s all I can muster for today.
8. I hate the new WP stats page!
There, I think I’m done now.